
SOURCE ALI EDWARDS
Lately with the new year I always think, where do I want to go this year, what do I want to change, improve, work on, make, aim for and much more. My one little word this year is EMBRACE. I want to embrace little changes into my life, day by day. I figure if I do little changes a day at a time, it will be easier and less over whelming than doing BIG changes at the one time. I have all year, I'm not going anywhere. I often feel like I am waiting for something to happen, and so I don't do things, only I am not sure what it is I am waiting for? I know it sounds really strange, it's harder for me to explain. But this year, this year, I want to make things happen. I want to make changes. I want to EMBRACE this life of mine.
Setting goals and following through. I'm looking to make goals each month like I do here, but to aim to actually do them each month and not just blog about them, and forget them a week later until I am doing my next months goals. I am going to do a blog post at the end of the month to list what I did and little stories to go with them, if there are any. If I failed, why I did and if I plan to then try tackle them the next month.
I want to get back into being organised. Funny that I acted like I ever was, haha. But in a ways I had a routine before Christmas. I went to the office from 9am - 3pm, I picked my girls up, heard about their day, home to cook and clean and it was becoming a routine for me. So while the girls are home for Summer school holidays [not long to go], I want to try and establish 5 jobs I can do in the morning to make coming home that little easier and not being overwhelmed. Did I happen to mention I am not the best house keeper, but I do try? Or that about 7 times out of 10 we are running late, and the house shows this when we get home that afternoon?
I want to have a cleaner house. Bet you saw that one coming from the comment above right? NOW, when I say this I don't want a spotless no mess house. Our house is lived in by 3 creative girls. Girls that love to play with dress ups and dolls and a teen that has magazines and nail polish. I was always told by my mum to make sure the kitchen, lounge and bathrooms are clean. Because if you ever have someone pop in, without notice, it's the places they will go. Just don't go to my room, or Kira's room for that matter and for the love of god please stay out of the laundry, which 6 times out of 10 has the pile of mount clothes in there. I get caught up on my washing, swear to stay at it and then my family wears the clean clothes? Haha. When we first moved into this house we had a routine, I would often vacuum, Kira put the dishes away, all girls tidied their room, all before school and it was working. But then things just slipped and slipped and now I need it back.
Work on my business. I love my business, but I am slightly un-organised right now and I need to set goals, be on top of things and work on branding myself in a big way this year. I wont lie, this will be a lot easier for me when the girls are back to school. I will have the time to think, get things done and sorted. At the moment when I go into work, like a little later today, I have two in toe, and while they are really well behaved, I can only do the main things and not the 10 other things I would like to do as well. I want to be on top of the opportunities that come my ways and not panic and get overwhelmed.
Aim to be onto the paper work. This I got right onto just before Christmas for Luke's business. But I want to be even more on top of it. I don't just want to be on top of the paper work, but the bills, the ins and outs of all paper work that comes into this house of ours.
Know what is happening and when. This would kinda go with being more organised I guess, but why not give it, it's own title? Far to often in 2013 I wouldn't know who had what and when. Excursions for the school, sports, family events. While I would figure it out soon enough, usually on the day of. I want to mark them in my planner the week before, so I know without a doubt what is happening and when.
Be a better mum and better wife. While I think I am pretty good, and not a terrible mother nor wife. I think I could make some improvements and this is something I did aim and did do in 2013. I just want to keep improving and get more involved with the life of my daughters and husband, but not overbearing haha.
There you have it, I am 'embracing' change.
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